Alert to join friend will pop up again so decline this time. Alert will go away after a few seconds then it'll load you into SP as Trevor. bring up Netcut and completely block the internet going towards your console. As soon as you accept all alert quickly do the same thing again and join friend through PSN dashboard, this time don't accept. Go a little higher and find what works best for you~ ~if alert to join friend doesn’t show up you limited your bandwidth a little too much. Wait 5 seconds on the alert, accept it and then after a few seconds the alert to join friend will pop up, quickly accept all the alerts. Quickly go to the PSN menu and join the friend in a private job, It should take you back to the game and but you will still be on the 'Rockstar servers unavailable.' alert. If done correctly you will get an alert saying 'Rockstar services are unavailable.' or something along those lines but don't accept, if not you would need to reload save and try again. Quickly press 'Play GTA Online' then 'Go' immediately after. Come back to the game and wait for the online options to reappear. Go to the WIFI settings on your console and toggle WIFI off and on. ~THE STEPS BELOW HERE NEED TO BE DONE SUPER FAST~ After pausing, go to the online tab and hover over 'Play GTA Online'

If your internet is already slow you can skip this and proceed with next step

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